Monday, October 31, 2011

A Vote for Conscience

Have you ever heard the term "vote your conscience"?  I hear it every time a presidential election starts to gear up. The truth is I'm not very politically minded by nature. It's a chore for me to follow elections and campaigns. In recent years, though, I have become increasingly aware of my responsibility as a good citizen of the world.

As a Christian I do not feel that I can definitively commit myself to a single party. My heart belongs to Christ and Him alone.  Not surprisingly C.S. Lewis did a remarkable job of explaining it in an essay in the compilation called "God in the Dock.  I have searched for the title of that essay and I can't find it.  I'll plan to post it in a comment when I find it. But I digress.  In the last election I had to look at all the candidates to evaluate them based on what qualities I felt would make a good leader. I ended up not at all sure who to vote for.

On the one hand I had the Democrats. I am pretty conservative overall so I generally shy away from this party.  However, I do not bitterly hate anyone from the party and find that some of the ideals are in alignment with things I believe in (I think I just heard and audible gasp from the Republican readers of my blog).

On the other hand I had the Republicans.  Yes I'm conservative, but when you really look at an individual candidating for the American presidency, you must also evaluate their leadership abilities.  I didn't see much coming from the GOP.  Also, just because a candidate has conservative ideals doesn't mean their life is not full of compromise.  That was also a common theme at the time.

So what's a white middle class conservative Christian American male to do?  I...I can hardly say it...I voted 3rd party!

As you pick yourself up off the floor, I'll let you know that I'm not going to write in this blog which party I voted for.  It doesn't really matter.  The point is that I voted 3rd party. 

An acquaintance of mine was absolutely appalled.  He is a died-in-the-wool Republican.  He works to distribute literature locally and is a staunch supporter of the GOP.  He was quite animated that I would throw away my vote.  Isn't it interesting that even in the land of opportunity we assume that there are really only two parties?  We don't even pretend that a 3rd party will win.  It just will not happen.  According to this person if a conservative voter does not vote Republican, it's almost like giving your vote to the Dem's.  And so I was duly chastised.

Frankly, when I look at a candidate for anything I'm looking at 1) personal character and 2) leadership abilities.  I really don't care what party they are affiliated with.  I want to know who they are and can they handle this position.  And I pray.  I don't make a move of this magnitude without prayer. 

Well, you know the end of the story: the Dem's won out, the GOP started searching for a new candidate, and my life went on pretty much like always.  Did my vote help put a Democrat in office?  Maybe.  But at the end of the day I can stand before God and I am confident that I am not simply voting for a party.  I'm voting for God.  I may get it wrong sometimes, but that's okay.  He knows my heart.  In fact, He's the one speaking to me in that still small voice...my conscience.  So vote your conscience.  God knows who will win.  I don't think He's intimidated.

Monday, October 10, 2011

Be A Man

As many of my readers know, I am a proponent of manhood. Yes, some may call that sexist but it's not. I do not promote manhood against womanhood. It is merely a celebration of being a man. I've been giving some thought on the topic now that the weather in the Midwest states begins to feel very autumn-ish. As always happens this time of year I get ready to walk out the door and I am put into a quandary. To wear or jacket or not to wear a jacket. That is the question. As I am typically a hot blooded sort of man I don't like to wear a jacket until it's good and cold. However, when it raining hard I generally use a windbreaker. That's just how I roll.

What is amazing to me is that every time I wear a jacket or a coat, almost without exception, someone will question my manhood. "Are you serious? Do you really need a jacket? It's not even cold out here!". Or "I don't wear a coat until it gets below freezing!".

Every single time.

Men need tests of manhood in their lives. Say what you will but it's embedded deep within our psyche. We must prove we are men. I don't think that's all bad. Every society must choose for themselves what the test will be.

Ours is apparently whether or not you wear a jacket.

Seriously it is pathetic what we in America do to prove we are men. If you scratch yourself and drink beer you must be a man. If you curse and disrespect authority you must be a man. If you gain power and image you must be a man.

It was not always the case. In America we had fine men who knew what it was to be both strong and kind. They knew how to act in the field and display manners at the table. Today we are in desperate need of modern examples of manliness. Real men who are not defined by societal influence but are rather driven to do that which is right. If you'll indulge me, I'll provide a few examples.

Example 1: My Grandpa
My Dad's dad was a true man. He was part of the last great generation. He served in the second world war and afterward moved to Detroit. He wanted to work in the automotive industry but became an educator in the public school system. He even wore a pocket protector. What made him a man, though, was his commitment. He was a loving husband to two wives (one died at a young age) and fathered three children. He could fix anything that broke. He was a master with wood and genius with mechanics. If you had a problem with your car, he'd come over for a visit in his trademark dress slack (yes....slacks is a good description) and short sleeved button down shirt and climb right under your car to start working. Yet he was, in my mind, refined. He was an antique dealer and his table manners were impeccable. The truth is, he was a nerd before being a nerd was cool. He was committed to seeing his family taken care of. He was committed to serving God in church. He was committed to helping others. He was committed to doing what was right even when there were easier ways.

Example 2: Harold
My friend, Harold, is father to 9 children. That was not a typo. He has structured his life, both professionally and personally, in a way that allows him to give of himself to his wife and children. He has had a series of successful businesses (construction based) in which he actively involves his sons. He considers his wife's needs and desires in his decision making and actively communicates his love for her. He puts a strong emphasis on loving God and serving others. Selfless is the word that comes to mind. And the results? I've never met a finer bunch of kids in my life.

Example 3: Chuck Norris
No, this is not a joke. I've spent some time learning about Chuck. I've been a martial arts fan my whole life. Although the Chuck Facts may be humorous (some are not) they do not in any way truly measure this man. Despite what you may think of him politically you cannot deny that Chuck is in every way a gentleman. He is passionate about God and country. He loves his wife and children. He uses his ample resources to help others, including under-privileged children who receive martial arts classes that emphasize self worth and good citizenship...all for free. His dedication to serving God in more recent years has been evident in his life and his writings. Plus, his roundhouse kick totally rocks.

The truth is that manhood, real manhood, is not about brute strength and Neanderthal-like thinking. It's not about power and prestige. It's not about money. Its not even about wearing a jacket. Its about commitment, honesty, integrity and love. It's about a selfless devotion to God. It's about strength of character.

True manhood is about living to serve.

As I thought of this post I found it difficult to identify modern examples of real men.

How about you? Who are your examples of real men?